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Marocco: lo scrittore Abdellah Taïa si dichiara gay

Per la prima volta in un paese arabo un personaggio pubblico, in questo caso uno scrittore, si dichiara pubblicamente gay. Eppur si muove verrebbe da pensare. In Francia, nel gennaio del 1972, lo scrittore Guy Hocquenghem aveva fatto lo stesso con una lettera pubblicata da Le Nouvel Observateur.

Recentemente la stampa marocchina affronta la questione omosessuale in maniera abbastanza positiva e rispettosa.

Di seguito il link diretto della lettera pubblicata dallo scrittore su Tel Quel

 

http://www.telquel-online.com/367/actu_maroc1_367.shtml

Sempre recente l'intervista a Samir Bergachi, coordinateur général de l’Association Kifkif de défense des droits des homosexuels.

http://www.maroc-hebdo.press.ma/MHinternet/Archives_829/html_829/berkachi.html

Islanda: eletta prima ministra lesbica

Jóhanna Sigurðardóttir è la nuova prima ministra islandese. A seguito delle recenti elezioni, svoltesi lo scorso 25 aprile, la Sigurðardóttir è stata eletta a capo di una coalizione di sinistra. La sua elezione è doppiamente storica. In primo luogo si tratta della prima volta che l'Islanda elegge una donna come suo leader; inoltre per la prima volta in tutto il mondo viene eletto un capo di stato dichiaratamente gay. La neoeletta leader non ha mai concesso interviste a proposito della sua sesssualità, ciononostante nella sua biografia si dice apertamente che la sua partner è la sceneggiatrice e giornalista Jónína Leósdóttir

La prima ministra gode di grande popolarità avendo già ricoperto questa carica ad internim. Ciò che è importante notare è che gli elettori non le hanno certo tolto la fiducia per il fatto di essere una donna nè lei ha dovuto nascondere il fatto di essere gay.

"Johanna is a very private person," said an Icelandic government source. "A lot of people didn't even know she was gay. When they learn about it people tend to shrug and say, 'Oh'. That's not to say they are not interested; they are interested in who she's living with – but no more so than if she was a man living with a woman."

"In opinion polls Johanna has repeatedly been chosen as the most popular politician in Iceland," said the government source. "She is a good choice, because one of the problems the government is facing is lack of trust. Getting Johanna to become Prime Minister was a way of saying trust is an issue. 

http://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/europe/world-gets-its-first-gay-head-of-state-1519068.html

http://www.time.com/time/world/article/0,8599,1875032,00.html

Di seguito riporto la foto della prima ministra

Sotto la foto della di lei moglie Jónína Leósdóttir

Ho inserito le foto giusto per sconvolgervi un pò. Magari vi aspettavate due bruttone dall'aria truce coi capelli rasati. E invece, mi spiace tanto, abbiamo due belle ed eleganti signore.

con l'occasione riporto una interessante analisi scritta per la rivista islandese di lingua inglese The Reykiavik Grapevive:

http://www.grapevine.is/Features/ReadArticle/what-is-the-significance-of-johanna-sigurdardottir-being-the-worlds-first-openly-gay-head-of-government

Sempre in campo islandese, anche se non attualissimo, segnalo questo articolo che riferisce della prima unione benedetta in chiesa per una coppia di lesbiche.

http://www.grapevine.is/Features/ReadArticle/Happily-Ever-After

Usa: l'attrice Kelly McGillis si dichiara lesbica

Intorno alla metà degli anni 80 era diventata famosa per il suo ruolo in Top Gun. Ora l'attrice, sempre una bella donna, si dichiara lesbica nel corso di un'intervista alla cantante e vlogger gay Jennifer Corday.

Qua potete vedere l'intervista video:

http://www.shewired.com/Article.cfm?ID=22511

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-1175410/Im-lesbian-declares-Top-Gun-actress-Kelly-McGillis.html

Kelly said it took her a long time to accept she was a lesbian. 'I think that was an ongoing process from the time I was probably 12.

'It was a long arduous journey for me. I had a lot of bad things happen to me that made me think God was punishing me for being gay.

'Life is a freaking journey about coming to terms with who and what you are.'

Regno Unito: Carol Ann Duffy prima donna e prima gay ad essere nominata Poet Laureate

Per la prima volta nella storia una donna ha ricevuto il titolo di Poet Laureate.

La poetessa Carol Ann Duffy è inoltre la prima persona dichiaratamente gay a ricevere tale onore.

Britain on Friday awarded the role of national poet laureate to Carol Ann Duffy — the first woman to hold a post that has been filled by William Wordsworth, Alfred Lord Tennyson and Ted Hughes.

Duffy is also the first openly gay laureate.

The laureate is officially appointed by the queen on the advice of the government. Prime Minister Gordon Brown called Duffy "a truly brilliant modern poet who has stretched our imaginations by putting the whole range of human experiences into lines that capture the emotions perfectly."

Duffy has published more than 30 books — plays and children's stories as well as poems that mix accessible modern language with traditional forms such as the sonnet. Her work often displays a sly, feminist take on history and contains a strong vein of social commentary.

 

http://www.google.com/hostednews/ap/article/ALeqM5ieItEBK-U3u7s51LDR7bbNlp2onAD97TFJ4G0

http://www.nytimes.com/2009/05/02/world/europe/02poet.html?_r=2&emc=eta1

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/entertainment/8027767.stm

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/entertainment/8029388.stm

Usa: l'attrice Clementine Ford si dichiara lesbica

L'attrice Clementine Ford, figlia d'arte di Cyblil Shepherd, si è recentemente dichiarata lesbica. Annunciando la sua relazione con la cantante Linda Perry che aveva fatto il suo coming out anni addietro. 

Riporto il link diretto all'intervista:

http://www.advocate.com/exclusive_detail_ektid76945.asp

Ecco la Ford con la fidanzata Linda

 

Di seguito la Ford con la mamma:

Entrambe le foto sono state scattate nel corso della serata di gala An evening with Women presso il Lesbian and Gay Center di Los Angeles.

Riguardo alla reazione della Shepherd al coming out della figlia il sito afterellen riporta la sientesi delle sue dichiarazioni. Ma, come si può dire, l'immagine parla da sola.

http://www.afterellen.com/blog/thelinster/cybill-shepherd-couldnt-be-more-proud-and-happy-for-clementine

Svezia: diocesi di Stoccolma elegge vescova lesbica

Eva Brunne è stata eletta vescova della diocesi di Stoccolma. La Brunne che sostituirà l'attuale vescova Karoline Krook, è la prima vescova dichiratamente lesbica al mondo. Attualmente svolge la funzione di decano e la sua partner è anche lei prete nella Chiesa di Svezia, di confessione luterana.

A female Lutheran pastor who is in a registered partnership with another woman was elected May 26 to be the next bishop of the Diocese of Stockholm in the Church of Sweden.

According to the diocese, Eva Brunne, 55, was elected by a vote of 413-365 over Hans Ulfvebrand in the second round of voting. A first round of voting by clergy of the diocese and an equal number of elected lay people was held in April. There are 13 dioceses in the Church of Sweden.

 http://www.pewforum.org/news/display.php?NewsID=18182

http://episcopalchurch.org/81808_108348_ENG_HTM.htm

http://www.svenskakyrkan.se/default.aspx?di=248784

http://eurout.org/2009/05/28/god-bless-sweden-eva-brunne-worlds-first-lesbian-bishop

Usa: lesbica tra le partecipanti a reality show con fotomodelle senior

C'è chi pensa che una donna oltre i 35 anni non valga più nulla e che non possa essere bella, affascinante e sexy. E c'è chi pensa che una lesbica non possa avere nessuna di queste qualità. A smentire entrambe gli stereotipi c'è il reality Usa "She's got the look" che vede impegnate in un contest come fotomodelle un gruppo di donne tutte rigorosamente over 35.

Tra loro Sandy Young, cantante rock indipendente e lesbica dichiarata. Eccola:

This Thursday night, cable channel TV Land (one of the many channels owned by Viacom, which also owns this website) premieres the second season of She's Got the Look — a modeling competition for women over 35 — with a lesbian among the contestants.

Sandy manages to convince the judges she can embody femininity as well as masculinity, so she lands one of the coveted finalist spots, and quite ably displays her femininity in one of the first challenges.

http://www.afterellen.com/TV/2009/6/shes-got-the-look

Usa: scuola del Bronx vota coppia di lesbiche di colore come migliore coppia

Vikky 17, and Deoine, 18, were overwhelmingly voted “best couple” by their peers in the graduating class at Mott Haven Village Preparatory High School, a first for the small public high school

Vikky said she was approached by the yearbook’s editor, a friend who admired how she and Deoine have been together for two and a half years during what is often a tumultuous period in young dating lives. 

”I think now, for other gay people who might go to my school, they will have a chance at getting in the yearbook, since we were the first,” she said.

The pair, who met in a 10th grade class and essentially went through the coming out process together, say their unique relationship has educated their classmates about gay and lesbian issues. No gay student organization exists at the school, although they describe the climate and teachers as generally supportive.

Neither young woman considers herself an activist, but Deoine hints that she follows gay rights developments somewhat closely. She mentions Cynthia Nixon and Ellen DeGeneres as role models

http://www.advocate.com/exclusive_detail_ektid93795.asp

Belgio: cordoglio per la morte di Yasmine, nota cantante lesbica

Yasmine era bella, solare, dolce. Notissima in Belgio per le sue canzoni ed i programmi tv da lei diretti, la cantante, al secolo Hilde Rens, era dichiaratamente lesbica. Nei forum del sito lesbico afterellen, di cui riporto il link, le ragazze la ricordano con affetto anche per il suo carattere amichevole e gentile.

Inoltre è opportuno rendere omaggio ad una donna coraggiosa che ha dato visibilità alle lesbiche con la propria immagine. Carina e femminile: esattamente l'opposto di come  vengono immaginate le lesbiche. Mentre continua l'isteria per un noto cantante americano, preferisco ricordare Yasmine e quello che il suo lavoro artistico ha significato per le lesbiche in particolare e per le donne in generale.

Riposa in pace, Yasmine.

Ecco un tributo a lei dedicato:



Ed eccola in un video che la mostra agli inizi della carriera.

 

 

 

http://www.afterellen.com/blog/sarahwarn/belgian-lesbian-yasmine-commits-suicide

Sudafrica: la cantante Melanie Lowe si dichiara lesbica

Melanie Lowe è, come tutte le lesbiche, una racchia. Si vede vero? Sguardo truce, lineamenti rudi, capelli rasati, peli sulle braccia, canotta da muratore, etc. Quanto mi piace l'ironia!

Riporto l'intervista del suo coming out.

http://www.mambagirl.com/article.asp?artid=3331

Finlandia: Nanna Grundfeldt, lesbica, vince il concorso di bellezza Top Model

Lo so, lo so. La notizia è davvero sconvolgente. Già è difficile immaginare che una lesbica possa partecipare ad un concorso di bellezza ma addirittura arrivare a vincerlo ha dell'incredibile. Già, perchè la leggenda vuole che tutte le lesbiche siano assolutamente brutte come la fame. Questo dice la leggenda, poi c'è la realtà che è tutta un'altra cosa.

Mi scuso, lo so che la notizia non è recentissima, ma davvero non potevo non pubblicarla.

 http://www.afterellen.com/TV/2009/6/nanna-wins-finlands-top-model

 

 

Brasile: Giovahanna candidata lesbica al concorso "Brazil Next Top Model"

E ancora ci risiamo. La racchia della foto è la candidata dichiaratamente lesbica al concorso tv per fotomodelle. Dedico la foto a chi pensa che tutte le lesbiche siano brutte.

 

http://www.afterellen.com/TV/2009/8/brazil-top-model

 

Francia: la cantante e umorista Océane Rosemarie si dichiara lesbica

Océane Rosemarie esce allo scoperto dichiarandosi lesbica affermando tra l'altro, pur in maniera semiseria, che ama il rossetto e e i vestiti a fiori e non la credono quando dice di essere lesbica. Occorre stupirsi?

 

http://www.lalesbienneinvisible.com/ 

http://oceanerosemarie.yagg.com/a-propos/

 

 

 

Usa: Obama nomina Chai Feldblum lesbica ebrea, Commissaria della Equal Employment Opportunity Commission

President Obama announced his intent to nominate the following individuals today:

Chai R. Feldblum, Nominee for Commissioner, Equal Employment Opportunity Commission
Chai Feldblum is a Professor of Law at the Georgetown University Law Center where she has taught since 1991. She also founded the Law Center’s Federal Legislation and Administrative Clinic, a program designed to train students to become legislative lawyers. Feldblum previously served as Legislative Counsel to the AIDS Project of the American Civil Liberties Union. In this role, she developed legislation, analyzed policy on various AIDS-related issues, and played a leading role in the drafting of the Americans with Disabilities Act of 1990 and, later as a law professor, in the passage of the ADA Amendments Act of 2008. She has also worked on advancing lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender rights and has been a leading expert on the Employment Nondiscrimination Act. As Co-Director of Workplace Flexibility 2010, Feldblum has worked to advance flexible workplaces in a manner that works for employees and employers. Feldblum clerked for Judge Frank Coffin and for Supreme Court Justice Harry A. Blackmun. She received her J.D. from Harvard Law School and B.A. from Barnard College.

http://www.whitehouse.gov/the_press_office/President-Obama-Announces-More-Key-Administration-Posts-9/14/09/

http://www.law.georgetown.edu/faculty/facinfo/tab_faculty.cfm?Status=Faculty&ID=251

“We commend President Obama for his nomination of Chai Feldblum to the U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission,” said Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese. “Professor Feldblum’s commitment to protecting the civil rights of all Americans makes her eminently qualified for Commissioner of the EEOC.”

http://www.hrc.org/13536.htm

On Monday, President Obama announced his nomination for Commissioner of the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission, and I couldn't be happier about his pick: Chai Feldblum, Professor of Law at Georgetown, who also happens to be an out Jewish lesbian. 

http://jwablog.jwa.org/chai_feldblum

Usa: Jane Castor, nominata capo della Polizia di Tampa

Per la prima volta la polizia di Tampa ha al suo vertice una donna e, per la prima volta, una persona gay, visto che la Castor è apertamente lesbica.

She is the first woman in Tampa's history to hold that title.

Castor will oversee the department's $133 million budget and 1,300 employees, 981 of them sworn officers.

Only two years after getting hired, she was prepping to become an academy instructor. Two years after that, she told her supervisors she wanted to get a master's degree.

"She clearly is a born leader in her demeanor," Iorio said. "I have total confidence in Jane."

Castor credited Hogue and Iorio as visionaries and thanked them for their tutelage.

She stopped short of reflecting too much on her gender.

"The significance of being the first female is certainly not lost on me," she said, before citing Iorio as another strong female leader in the area. "Frankly, I'd rather be known as a good chief than the first female."

There are nine female police chiefs in Florida, including Pinellas Park Chief Dorene Thomas, according to the Florida Police Chiefs Association.

Nationwide, about 300 out of 18,000 police chiefs are women, according to women-in-policing expert Dorothy Schulz of the John Jay College of Criminal Justice in New York.

Castor's promotion had added significance for another reason. Openly gay, she has served for more than six years as a liaison to Tampa's gay and lesbian community.

http://www.tampabay.com/news/publicsafety/article1036669.ece

 

Usa: Obama nomina Jenny Durkan, lesbica dichiarata, alla posizione di US attorney

"I'm thrilled to finally get into the office and get to work," she said Tuesday shortly after the confirmation was announced. "There's a lot going on, from this new round of terrorism investigations to the ongoing targeting of financial crimes."

The U.S Attorney's job involves overseeing the Justice Department's efforts west of the Cascades, including overseeing federal criminal investigations and defending the federal government in court.

Durkan is the second woman to hold the job and is likely the first openly gay appointed federal prosecutor in the country.

http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/html/politics/2009969288_durkan30m.html?syndication=rss

http://www.mombian.com/2009/09/30/lesbian-mom-named-u-s-attorney/

 

Irlanda: famoso sportivo si dichiara gay

Davvero sconvolgente! Mamma mia! Ma come? I gay non erano tutti debolucci ed incapaci di svolgere la benchè minima attività fisica che richieda sforzo e grinta? Gasp! Sembra che la realtà contraddica lo stereotipo.

All-Ireland hurling star Donal Og Cusack has revealed in an explosive autobiography that he has slept with both men and women before realising he is gay.

The player has lifted the lid off his bisexual past in a candid story of his life that makes him the first ever senior GAA star to publicly declare his homosexuality.

 

Usa: la cantante Brandi Carlile si dichiara lesbica

E anche in questo caso lo stereotipo della lesbica brutta dai capelli rasati è nuovamente smentito. Un coming out fatto con naturalezza, col pensiero di come la visibilità di artista lesbica di successo possa essere come modello e conforto a chi, giovane o meno giovane, è gay e non ha modelli positivi non stereotipati di riferimento. Brava Brandi!

She discovered rock music, through Elton John, an artist whom she calls "my greatest hero of all time." Much to her amazement, John became her duet partner on her new album, collaborating with Carlile on the "Honky Chateau"-style rambler "Caroline." He's one of several prominent guests who appear on "Give Up the Ghost," including Red Hot Chili Peppers drummer Chad Smith and her "childhood hero and dearest friend" Amy Ray of the Indigo Girls. Carlile has something more personal in common with John: She is gay. But unlike her idol, who suffered many travails in his long trip out of the closet, she feels that her sexuality has neither helped nor hindered her. "I don't think it factors in to the way people relate to the lyrics," she said.

"I hope that somewhere in Small Town, USA, a 15-year-old kid looks to me as a role model the way I looked at the Indigo Girls and Elton John as role models," she said. "And I hope they also recognize that the reason why I don't have to have a lot of formality around it, the reason why I don't have to wear it on my sleeve and make a spectacle of it, is because there were people before me who paved the way so I wouldn't have to."

http://www.latimes.com/entertainment/news/la-et-brandi-carlile17-2009oct17,0,1274085.story

http://www.brandicarlile.com/

Usa: la fotomodella lesbica Jessica Clark intervistata per la rivista patinata Allure

Ovviamente è un colpo tremendo, micidiale per coloro che credono che tutte le lesbiche siano brutte come la fame e che una fotomodella lesbica sia un ossimoro.

The gorgeous mixed-race (lesbian!) model is featured in this month's Allure magazine, specifically in a feature about how the face of modeling is changing to be more inclusive of women of color.

http://www.afterellen.com/blog/trishbendix/jessica-clark-shows-off-her-allure

Since the focus of the article was on models who are bringing some color into the modeling industry, they didn't feel the need to make mention of Jessica's sexuality. However, Jessica tells me that they were aware of her being a lesbian, and found it very cool.

"They all knew I was gay," Jessica wrote to me in an e-mail. "The photographer Marilyn Minter is a phenomenally talented artist who paints from her photographs and she loved that I was a lesbian because of the whole additional dimension it gave things — how different the faces of the future were, etc."

http://www.myspace.com/jessicaclarklife

 

Sotto Jessica con la fidanzata Lacey Stone

 

Svezia: Peter Haggstrom, olimpionico di salto in lungo si dichiara gay

Davvero incredibile. Roba da non credere. Ma gli uomini gay non erano tutti smidollati, urletti e mosettine assolutamente non in grado di avere la minima energia e di praticare sport? Ah, l'ironia!

in a nuthsell the 33-year-old Häggström, a longjumper who won six National Championship Medals and competed in the Sydney Olympics, says coming out was harder than qualifying for the Olympics, he wants to be a role model, and has found a guy who makes him happy.

http://www.qx.se/12375/komma-ut-svarare-an-oskval

Usa: l'attrice Meredith Baxter si dichiara lesbica

Ancora una volta smentito lo stereotipo della lesbica brutta. Basta guardare la foto. 

"I am a lesbian and it was a later-in-life recognition"

Probably best known for playing the liberal mother of Michael J. Fox's young Republican on "Family Ties," Baxter told Lauer, "I don't want to be worried all the time." Locke, she said, is openly gay: “I had to reach a level of comfort because it wasn’t fair to push her back into secrecy.”

“I got involved with someone I never expected to get involved with, and it was that kind of awakening,” she said. The mother of five, Baxter recalled telling her kids. “I said, ‘I think I’m gay,’ and my oldest boy said, ‘I knew.'"

 http://www.boston.com/ae/tv/blog/2009/12/meredith_baxter.html

Di seguito l'intervista della Baxter alla rivista gay The Advocate.

 http://advocate.com/Arts_and_Entertainment/People/Meredith_Baxters_New_Family_Ties/

 

 

 

 

Usa: la città di Houston elegge Annise Parker, donna apertamente lesbica, alla carica di sindaco

Annise Parker made history Saturday as Houston's first openly gay mayor.

Parker's election also makes her the second woman to become mayor of Houston. Other cities such as Providence, Rhode Island, and Portland, Oregon, have picked openly gay mayors. Houston is the fourth-largest U.S. city.

"Houston is a multiracial, multicultural, international city. And I think my election will send a message to the world that Houston is a city that might surprise a lot of folks," Parker said before the runoff.

Parker, 53, has never shied away from, nor made an issue of, her sexual orientation. She has been with her partner for 19 years and they have two adopted children.

"I have always stood up for the fact that I am gay. It's part of the resume that I bring to the table, but it's just a piece of the package," she said.

 http://edition.cnn.com/2009/POLITICS/12/13/houston.mayor/index.html

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/northamerica/usa/6803974/Houston-elects-openly-gay-mayor.html

http://www.reuters.com/article/idUSTRE5BC06920091213

Australia: la Vj Ruby Rose e l'olimpionico Matthew Mitcham tra i gay più influenti del paese

Già. Chi mai e poi mai potrebbe immaginare che una ragazza bella, sexy ed affascinante, apprezzata vj e tra i volti più popolari nella televisione australiana e un giovanotto atletico che ha collezionato medaglie nei tuffi nel corso delle ultime Olimpiadi, possano essere gay? Certo, gli stereotipi hanno anche un fondamento di verità ma poterli smentire in maniera cosi' lampante e plateale è una soddisfazione senza prezzo. Dedicato a quelli che "le lesbiche sono tutte racchie e i gay tutti flaccidi smidollati".

 Olympic diver and two-time Advocate cover boy Matthew Mitcham, pop star Sia, and MTV personality Ruby Rose have topped the list of the 25 most influential gay and lesbian Australians, announced on Wednesday.

All three have appeared on the list before.

http://www.advocate.com/GoogleSearch.aspx?cx=004702892678028084022%3Abehrya7ovby&cof=FORID%3A10&ie=UTF-8&q=Ruby Rose#751

 http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Matthew_Mitcham

http://www.mattmitcham.com/

 http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ruby_Rose

 

 

 

Regno Unito: la giornalista della BBC Jane Hill si dichiara lesbica

Una donna di successo, una giornalista affermata elegante e raffinata, smentisce, grazie al suo coming out tutti i peggiori stereotipi riguardo alle lesbiche.

Tutte brutte, coi capelli a spazzola, trasandate, con lo sguardo truce, etc. Un pò come la Hill vero? Ah, l'ironia quanto mi piace!

BBC newsreader Jane Hill has outed herself as gay in the Corporation's in-house magazine.

The 40-year-old presenter revealed she was living with her partner Sara and their dog Mavis in an interview with Ariel.

The couple have been together for about a year.

'Everyone has known for years that Jane is gay,' a colleague said.

'She hasn't made a secret of it at the BBC and although she has had other girlfriends over the years, this one seems to be the one.'

Described by one male TV critic as 'severe but sexy,' Miss Hill is much admired for her presentational and reporting skills.

Regno Unito: Gareth Thomas, leggenda del rubgy gallese, si dichiara gay

Non c'è esempio migliore contro l'omofobia di atleti coraggiosi come Thomas che, uscendo allo scoperto, fanno crollare miseramente al suolo i peggiori stereotipi sugli uomini gay. Mi permetto di suggerire a coloro che organizano i seminari sull'omofobia di mostrare questi esempi concreti.

Vorrei inoltre sottolienare quanto il mondo del rubgy, almeno quello britannico, abbia dato prova di rispetto. E questo rende ai rugbisti onore.

He says: 'I was like a ticking bomb. I thought I could suppress it, keep it locked away in some dark corner of myself, but I couldn't.

'It was who I was, and I just couldn't ignore it any more.

'I'd been through every emotion under the sun trying to deal with this. 

'You wake up one morning thinking: "I can handle it. Everything is fine," and the next morning you don't want anyone to see your face, because you think that if people look at you, they will know.'

A coach named Scott Johnson, a great man, came up to me in the dressing room after the game for a chat and I just broke down in tears.

'He said: "What's up?" 'I said: "Me and Jemma have split," and he said: "Oh no, what's happened?" Then he said: "I know what's happened, I know what it is."'

Somehow, the coach had guessed. 

Usa: successo per la fotomodella lesbica Tasha Tilberg

Capelli corti o lunghi poco importa. C'è lo stile, la classe, l'eleganza e la bellezza. E, ancora una volta, lo sterotipo della lesbica brutta e trasandata è smentito dall'esempio di una vera fotomedella di sucesso. Congratulazioni Tasha!

But trafficking in girls-gone-wild provocation is not the same thing as authentic representation. Few know that better than Tasha Tilberg, a 30-year old model who has been at the top of the fashion heap for 15 years, working with the biggest designers and magazines; and she’s been out of the closet for nearly her entire career.

“The fashion industry used to be much more closeted for girls,” she says, noting that ascension of lesbian models is a good thing not only for fashion but for culture. “I think it’s great for people to realize that we are everywhere and not a stereotype,” she says. “We are everywhere, and we look like everybody else.”

http://www.advocate.com/article.aspx?id=104944

 

 

Usa: il cantante rock Rostam Batmanglij si dichiara gay

Vi aspettavate un isterico urlante daai tratti femminei incapace di suonare in un gruppo rock perchè troppo tosto? Mi spiace tanto deludervi.

I Vampireweekend, il gruppo di cui fa parte, sono un esempio di rispetto e civiiltà. Quattro ragazzi che amano il rock e fanno musica con impegno e passione. Uno di loro è gay, non si nasconde e la vita prosegue serenamente. Come dovrebbe essere in un mondo ideale. Nel link trovate anche i video musicali del gruppo.

http://www.vampireweekend.com/

Toujours dans le même article, on apprend également que le jeune musicien sortait d’une rupture avec son copain au moment de l’enregistrement du nouvel album de Vampire Weekend: «J’ai tout fait pour le retenir», explique Rostam. «Il m’a brisé le cœur». Pour tourner la page, Rostam s'est alors enfermé en studio avec ses camarades pour enregistrer et finaliser leur second disque, jusqu'à y passer 15 heures par jour!

Et noyer son chagrin dans le travail, parfois ça a du bon. Avec Contra, Vampire Weekend est devenu le premier groupe signé sur un label non-américain à entrer directement No 1 du Billboard US! En France, l'album s’est déjà vendu à 20.000 exemplaires en l'espace de deux semaines, un chiffre très honorable en ces temps de crise du disque.

http://www.tetu.com/actualites/culture/un-rockeur-fait-son-coming-out-dans-rolling-stone--16460

Canada: l'olandese Ireen Wust, dichiaratamente lesbica, vince la medaglia d'oro nel pattinaggio di velocità nei 1500 metri

Assolutamente corretto il fatto che Irene voglia parlare dello sport e non della sua fidanzata. Peccato solo che le atlete eterosessuali non si debbano minimamente preoccupare se casualmente raccontano del marito o del fidanzato alla stampa. In ogni caso Irene è una grande atleta la cui vittoria dimostra l'impegno ed il sacrificio oltre, il che non guasta, ad essere una bella ragazza. E le due cose assieme fanno crollare al suolo tutti gli stereotipi sulle lesbiche.

"Pulling all the pieces together, I'm so proud and happy. I can't describe how happy I am. I don't have words for it," said Wust, who broke down crying on the medal podium while the Dutch national anthem was played. "I think I'm the happiest person on Earth right now."

http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2010/02/21/AR2010022103839.html

Yes, Wüst came out in the interview, but I don’t think she regrets doing so, I believe she regrets the amount of attention that fact got instead of her high chances of winning medals opposite other favorites from the Czech Republic, Germany and Canada.

Then again, why should we have to think about the consequences when all someone does is mention you’re in a loving relationship with your partner? The only difference here is that this partner is of the same sex.

http://eurout.org/2010/02/14/dutch-ice-skater-ireen-w-st-wants-talk-about-her-job-not-about-her-girlfriend

 

Usa: Sherri Murrell, allenatrice dichiaratamente lesbica, porta la sua squadra, i Vikings, al successo

Una bella storia. Non nascondersi ed essere sè stessi può dare risultati vantaggiosi. Non è la fine del mondo e l'orientamento sessuale, quando manifesto, diventa, come dovrebbe essere un non-argomento.

Murrell, a native Oregonian, opted to live in Portland to figure her next move. And a week after she put a bid on a home, Portland State called with a job opening.

She accepted, yet things would be different this time.

Murrell altered her coaching style and decided she'd be open about her sexuality, proudly placing a picture of herself, partner and twins in the media guide. She remains the only out Division I head women's basketball coach, saying the honesty is easier on her partner, boosters and players.

"It's not like I had a team meeting and said, 'Hey, I'm a lesbian,' " Murrell said. "But if the kids ask, 'Coach, do you have a family?' I tell them. I made a conscious decision this was how it was going to be.

"A lot won't do it because of a fear of the unknown — people not wanting to send their kids to play for you. I did not know how it was going to play out, but it didn't keep me from being authentic and being myself. And it became a nonissue."

in Murrell's first year she had the team tied for third in the Big Sky. Combing Washington for talent, last season Portland State placed second with a 23-10 overall record, advancing to the Women's NIT, where the Vikings lost in the second round to Oregon State.

http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/html/ncaatournamentwomen/2011382806_ncaaseattle19.html

Potevo esimermi dallo sbattervi in faccia la foto della Murrell? No. Carina, con la frangetta e la collana direi che è davvero l'opposto di come si immagina la donna lesbica.

 

Gran Bretagna: il cantante Kele Okereke si dichiara gay

Le persone famose che rifiutano di parlare della propria vita privata considerando l'argomento non importante, come aveva fatto Kereke in un primo tempo, sono quasi sempre gay. Avete mai sentito una persona eterosessuale tacere riguardo alla propria vita privata? Si chiama doppio standard. Per questo congratulazioni al coraggioso Kele. 

He added: “This interview is actually an important step in my relationship with my parents. The reason I’m doing it is whenever I go out , I’m always stopped by young, gay kids who say it’s really refreshing and encouraging to see someone like me being out in a relatively mainstream band.

"If I’d have had someone saying it’s okay to be you when I was a teenager, I’d probably be a very different person. That is why I’m doing this now, after years of not doing it. It’s good to show that gays come in all shapes and sizes.”

Okereke has rarely referred to his sexual orientation in interviews. He has said in the past he dislikes talking about race or sexuality because it does not relate to his music.

But speaking more candidly to Butt magazine, he revealed that his "super-Catholic" parents had struggled to accept his homosexuality.

http://www.buttmagazine.com/?p=6322

http://www.myspace.com/blocparty

 http://www.pinknews.co.uk/2010/03/12/bloc-partys-kele-on-coming-out-to-his-parents/

 

Usa: il cantante Ricky Martin si dichiara gay

Forse lo sapevate già. Quello che conta in questa storia è il coraggio e l'onestà di essere sè stessi, visibili come un libro aperto. Una questione che, ricordo per inciso, per le persone eterosessuali neanche si pone.

If someone asked me today, "Ricky, what are you afraid of?" I would answer "the blood that runs through the streets of countries at war...child slavery, terrorism...the cynicism of some people in positions of power, the misinterpretation of faith." But fear of my truth? Not at all!  On the contrary, It fills me with strength and courage. This is just what I need especially now that I am the father of two beautiful boys that are so full of light and who with their outlook teach me new things every day. To keep living as I did up until today would be to indirectly diminish the glow that my kids where born with. Enough is enough. This has to change. This was not supposed to happen 5 or 10 years ago, it is supposed to happen now. Today is my day, this is my time, and this is my moment.

These years in silence and reflection made me stronger and reminded me that acceptance has to come from within and that this kind of truth gives me the power to conquer emotions I didn't even know existed.

What will happen from now on? It doesn't matter. I can only focus on what's happening to me in this moment. The word "happiness" takes on a new meaning for me as of today. It has been a very intense process. Every word that I write in this letter is born out of love, acceptance, detachment and real contentment. Writing this is a solid step towards my inner peace and vital part of my evolution.

I am proud to say that I am a fortunate homosexual man. I am very blessed to be who I am. 

RM

http://rickymartinmusic.com/portal/news/news.asp?item=114532

Usa: lancio del reality The Real L Word: Los Angeles

Un reality ispirato alla celebre serie le cui protagoniste non sarebbero realistiche. Forse avrebbero dovuto essere mal vestite, camminare a gambe larghe, avere lo sguardo truce, i capelli a spazzola, essere insomma una caricatura della peggior specie dei bulli di periferia. Un'immagine, a volte reale ma più spesso immaginata, forse rassicurante per chi vuole vedere le lesbiche come delle diverse tout court. Evidentemente è sconcertante vedere che le lesbiche possono avere successo al lavoro, avere classe, essere eleganti e non per questo non essere delle autentiche lesbiche. Come le protagoniste del reality.  

Showtime is reviving "The L Word" -- but this time as a reality series.
Pay cabler has greenlit nine episodes of "The Real L Word: Los Angeles," from "L Word" creator Ilene Chaiken and reality producers Magical Elves ("Top Chef").

Show will follow six lesbians in Los Angeles as they go about their lives -- a lesbian answer to Bravo's "Real Housewives" franchise. Project is dependent on casting, the net said; if all goes as planned, "The Real L Word" would debut sometime next year.

"We love to tell authentic stories about complex characters and feel like this is an area that has yet to be explored in reality television," Lipsitz said.

http://www.thelwordonline.com/reality.html

Usa: la cantante cristiana Jennifer Knapp si dichiara lesbica

Se per un'artista dichiararsi, fare coming out o uscire allo scoperto (tre modi di definire l'atto di non nascondere il fatto di essere gay) è un atto lodevole che denota coraggio ed onestà, questo vale ancora di più nel caso di Jennifer Knapp, un'apprezzata cantante oltre che una bellissima ragazza, specializzata in musica di ispirazione cristiana.

The rumors dogged her then as they dog her now. They said Jennifer Knapp canceled all her gigs and sold every inch of gear save one acoustic guitar because she was a lesbian. She stopped answering her e-mail, going months without talking even to her mother or her manager, because she was a lesbian. She dropped out of sight because she was a lesbian. And now, poised to release her first studio album in years, Jennifer Knapp is ready to face those rumors.

Turns out they’re true: Jennifer Knapp is a lesbian.

For Knapp, coming out means the chance to live honestly, to be “wholly myself.”

then there’s the e-mail Knapp receives from a young fan asking, if she is a lesbian, to please come out: “That would help me feel less alone.” Over the free-ranging hour we’ve spent together, it’s the first time Knapp’s voice cracks. No matter how personal her transformation might be, telling the world is inescapably, publicly important.

http://www.advocate.com/Arts_and_Entertainment/Entertainment_News/Christian_singer_Jennifer_Knapp_Comes_Out/

http://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/music/interviews/2010/jenniferknapp-apr10.html

http://www.jenniferknapp.com/

 

Australia: il nuotatore olimpionico Daniel Kowalsky si dichiara gay

Ancora una volta tutta la mia ammirazione per il coraggio e l'onestà.

I finally accepted my sexuality at the end of 2006 following a huge anxiety attack at work. After what were literally years of torment, denial and very, very dark times, I couldn't live a lie to myself any more.

My family, close friends and, of late, my current work colleagues have been very supportive. These people, possibly already suspecting ''what team I batted for'', were always protective. Their protection became even more apparent in social situations where I would notice them deflect negative comments away from me once I had actually told them I was gay.

Speculation, gossip, rumour and innuendo are common practice; we all do it, I know I have been guilty of it. Living the lie and deflecting the innuendo grows tiring. It is emotionally exhausting and it flat out hurts no matter how hard you try to block it out. I would be extremely well off if someone gave me 10 cents every time I heard the comment ''don't listen to it''. But, like the gossiping itself, it is almost impossible not to.

This year, more than I can remember in recent times, it seems as though there have been an influx of coming-out stories or gay points of conversation. For the people coming out it is no doubt a courageous step and I truly admire them and am inspired by their stories.

Despite the dark, fearful and lonely times, being able to write this fills me with a sense of freedom, pride and relief. There truly is a genuine sense that everything will be OK.

I wrestled for a long, long time wondering whether being gay made me a bad person, but I can no longer fight who I am and that, simply put, is just me. Daniel Kowalski.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Daniel_Kowalski

http://www.smh.com.au/opinion/society-and-culture/jumping-in-the-deep-end-20100417-sldd.html

Usa: gay e lesbiche più attenti alle tematiche ambientali degli etero

Gasp! Ma come! Gay e lesbiche non dovrebbero essere "contro natura"!? E invece, ma guarda un pò, si preoccupano dell'ambiente più degli eterosessuali.

The LGBT sector is leading America in “green” consciousness, and has already embraced ideas that green organizers hope the rest of the nation will endorse and act on.

An Echelon Magazine 2009 online survey reports that “two-thirds (66%) of lesbian, gay, bisexual and/or transgender adults, say that it is important to support environmental causes, compared with 56% of non-LGBT adults. Three-quarters (75%) of LGBT adults (compared with 53% of heterosexuals) believe global warming is happening right now, and by more than two-to-one proportions, 39% of LGBT adults say they have seen or read Al Gore’s ‘An Inconvenient Truth’ while only 20% of heterosexuals say they have seen or read it.”

Apparently our LGBT community also cares about the environment and the future of next generation, whether we have children or not.

“Most significant,” said Bob Witeck of Echelon, “is the measure of global environmental stewardship. Although LGBT households are not parenting as frequently as our non-gay counterparts, 51% say they are concerned about the planet we are leaving behind for future generations – compared with 42% of heterosexual adults. This signals a very high sense of community and cooperation that many LGBT citizens know first-hand.”

http://sdgln.com/commentary/2010/04/15/green-not-just-another-pretty-color-rainbow-flag

Usa: Derrick Martin e Richard Goodman, studenti e fidanzati, accolti al ballo del liceo

Contrariamente alla triste vicenda di Constance McKillen, i due fidanzatini hanno potuto partecipare con tutti gli altri al ballo della scuola. Meglio cosi'.

Derrick Martin had a question he couldn’t answer, so he did what any 18-year-old would. Fingers tapping, he logged on to his computer last December and Googled the following words, which changed his life:

“I’m gay. Can I go to the prom?”

He can, and will. But those eight little words have done more than ensure the high school senior can take a same-sex date to Bleckley High School’s prom next month.

Seeking that answer has thrust him to the forefront of a national discussion. It’s touched off heated discussions in beauty salons and restaurants here and elsewhere, and made this small middle Georgia town a focal point in the debate over gay rights. Some applaud him for bravery.

http://www.ajc.com/news/making-a-prom-date-407624.html

When Martin, 18, and his boyfriend Richard Goodman, also 18, stepped onto a makeshift “red carpet” and their names were announced, a few parents whispered but many in the crowd gave him a loud cheer. No one yelled out in protest.

“I wonder if they realize what they’ve done,” said Arturro Beeche, a San Francisco professor who flew into Georgia on Friday and drove Martin and Goodman to the prom. “Once it happens in small-town America, it will inspire so many,” he said.

“You have to do what you think is right,” Martin said the Friday while he and Goodman picked up their matching black and white tuxedos. “I was tired of being sneaky and hiding things.”

http://www.macon.com/2010/04/18/1097977/bleckley-prom-goes-smoothly.htmlhttp://www.macon.com/2010/04/18/1097977/bleckley-prom-goes-smoothly.html

Usa: Cory Benton, afroamericano ed atleta di spicco alla Columbia University, si dichiara gay

No, non corre con i tacchi alti, non ha la borsetta, non si produce in urletti isterici. Mi spiace davvero tanto deludervi ma non è cosi'. Ebbene si, un atleta afroamericano apprezzato dal suo allenatore e dai suoi compagni che racconta, con integrità ed onestà, il suo coming out. Affinchè altri possano averlo a modello.

So many thoughts ran through my head. Did I have something new to prove? What if I did not run well? Would my teammates attribute a bad race to my homosexuality? All of these questions raced rapidly through my head as others walked toward the starting line. But I couldn’t move. I was petrified. I glanced over at my coach.

“Let’s go, Cory,” Coach Wood shouted. “Get out hard!” Somehow, as soon as he said those words, all of the negative feelings and thoughts disappeared. I was focused on the race at hand.
During the summer between my freshman and sophomore years of college, I couldn’t take the lying and sleepless nights anymore.

My head coach, Willy Wood, quickly replied and asked if I would like to come into his office and talk about it. What started off as a silent, awkward conversation turned into daily long conversations about my life and how my family was handling me coming out. I would sit in his office for sometimes hours and discuss how I felt about being gay, and how I felt now that I was out.

Two athletes outside my team have helped me a lot along the way. Jamal Brown was an openly gay runner for Dartmouth College who was there for me during my really low points at Columbia. Jamal has always been a great source of advice, since he had been through everything I was currently going through. To personally know another openly gay athlete has helped me so much as I adapt to being my true self in this environment. And while Scott Herman is not a fellow runner, he is one of the people I look up to most today. He has inspired me to give it my all for my last semester at Columbia. I appreciate them both immensely.

http://www.outsports.com/os/index.php/component/content/article/54-coming-out-stories-that-have-appeared-on-outsports/318-columbia-university-sprinter-is-openly-gay

http://outsports.com/jocktalkblog/2010/04/27/out-columbia-university-sprinter-cory-benton/

Nuova Zellanda: Blake Skjellerup, olimpionico di pattinaggio di velocità su ghiaccio, si dichiara gay

New Zealand speed skater Blake Skjellerup, who competed at the Winter Olympics in Vancouver, has come out in an interview with Australian magazine DNA.

“'We are not yet at the point in society where being gay sportsperson is not a big deal. If I was asked during any of my twenty-something interviews at the Olympics whether I had a boyfriend or a girlfriend — in the same sentence — I would have replied honestly, but I may have replied hesitantly,’” Skjellerup told DNA.

Skjellerup does not name his boyfriend, who is also a competitive athlete.

Se Blake avesse una fidanzata, ovviamente la potrebbe presentare senza neanche pensarci un attimo. Quindi prima di parlare di "sbandierare" la propria vita privata, magari sarebbe opportuno riflettere che ci sono due pesi e due misure. Una regola vale per gli eterosessuali che sbandierano quotidianamente la vita privata e l'altra per coloro che sono gay che invece fanno prova di grande coraggio ogni volta che escono allo scoperto. Inoltre la figura di un atleta olimpionico apertamente gay smentisce i peggiori stereotipi meglio di tanti discorsi.

Here is the link to the coming out story

 

 

Usa: la cantante country Chely Wright si dichiara lesbica

Nelle interviste la cantante, la prima artista country a dichiararsi gay, ha raccontato quanto le sia costato sul piano umano doversi nascondere. Ma ora comincia una nuova vita per la bella Chely, negli Stati Uniti, una vera star, che sarà sicuramente un modello di riferimento positivo per le lesbiche. 

The 39-year-old singer revealed this morning that she is gay, making her the first major country star to come out publicly.

In an exclusive interview with PEOPLE, Wright explains why she was reluctant to discuss her sexual orientation for so long. "There had never, ever been a country music artist who had acknowledged his or her homosexuality," she said. "I wasn't going to be the first."

However, "Nothing in my life has been more magical than the moment I decided to come out," she says.

Wright, a small-town girl who grew up in a musical family and released her debut album in 1994, says she's directed her whole life around the dream of making music. Given the conservative bent of the country music world, she decided to put her career ahead of her personal life. "I hid everything for my music," she explained.

 http://new.music.yahoo.com/blogs/ourcountry/24529/chely-wright-comes-out/

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/karen-ocamb/country-star-chely-wright_b_565302.html

http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20365936,00.html

Gran Bretagna: la cantante rap Lady Sovereign si dichiara lesbica

Ancora una volta un positivo e solare coming out. Lady Sovereign ha deciso di non nascondersi più perchè non c'è nulla di male ad essere lesbiche. Con la visibilità ed il successo sicuramente potrà essere modello e punto di riferimento per tutte quelle lesbiche costrette a vivere nell'ombra. Inoltre, ancora una volta, viene msentito lo stereotipo della lesbica brutta.  

“Magazines would always ask about it but [their questions] would get stopped by my publicists. It was my choice, too, because I was a bit worried about it but now I don’t really give a [expletive]. You can’t hide away forever. It’s just stupid and now I’ve come out I feel a lot more comfortable with myself. But it was a bit scary back then because some people do have horrible opinions,” Sovereign says for Diva, out at newsstands today.

http://news.softpedia.com/news/Lady-Sovereign-Comes-Out-of-the-Closet-141956.shtml

http://www.divamag.co.uk/diva/

 

Australia: il tuffatore olimpionico Matthew Mitcham, dichiaratamente gay, vince l'oro ai mondiali

Congratulazioni, Matthew!

Olympic champion Matthew Mitcham has produced a stunning performance to claim gold at the diving World Cup in China.

Mitcham claimed Australia's third medal at the sport's benchmark meet of the year in the 10 metre platform, the same event he won in sensational fashion at the Beijing Olympics.

"It is the second time I have beaten the Chinese on their home ground," Mitcham said.

http://www.abc.net.au/news/stories/2010/06/07/2920114.htm

Sotto due foto di Matthew, in una è col fidanzato Lachlan-fletcher

 


Usa: il cantante latino pop Angelo Garcia si dichiara gay

Non si tratta di sbandierare nulla. Un cantante eterosessuale non è mai accusato di sbandierare alcunchè se racconta delle sue fidanzate. Di conseguenza in un momdo ideale tutti dovrebbero essere liberi di parlare senza tacere una parte importante della propria vita, quella affettiva. Per questo il coming out di Angelo assume un valore simbolico di rilievo. 

Once the youngest member of the Latin boy band Menudo, Ricky Martin’s former band mate Angelo Garcia came out in an interview with the magazine TV Notas.

"I'm very honest about who I am, but I don't like labels ... people need to understand that someone's sexuality doesn't make the person. I'm more than that, a son, brother a musician,” Garcia says in the interview.

http://outviewonline.blogspot.com/2010/06/culture-menudos-angelo-garcia-comes-out.html

www.myspace.com/angelopop

Ariel Shepherd-Oppenheim, figlia dell'attrice Cybil Shephered, si dichiara lesbica

CYBILL SHEPHERD's youngest daughter has 'come out' as a lesbian, a year after her older sibling announced she was gay.

Clementine Ford, 30, revealed her sexual preference last year (09) and now the Moonlighting star's other daughter, Ariel Shepherd-Oppenheim, has followed in her footsteps.

The 22 year old stepped out in public with her girlfriend for the first time to attend the 21st Annual Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD) Media Awards in San Francisco, California earlier this month (Jun10) to watch the comedienne receive the Golden Gate Award. The honour is given to stars in recognition of their work promoting equal rights for the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) community.

Shepherd-Oppenheim was applauded by the gay rights group for going public with the same-sex romance at the event and her actress mum couldn't be happier, reports the National Enquirer.

http://www.contactmusic.com/news.nsf/story/shepherds-daughter-steps-out-with-lesbian-lover_1148222

Sotto, da sinistra verso destra: Ariel Shepherd-Oppenheim e la graziosa brunetta al suo fianco la fidanzata Carmen Chambers, la cantante country Chely Wright, Clementine Fiord, sorella di Ariel e la fidanzata Linda Perry. Un pò sconvolgente vero, vedere un gruppo di lesbiche con vestito, make-up e capelli lunghi?

Messico: l'attrice Kenia Gascon si dichiara lesbica

La notizia è in spagnolo, riporto ad ogni modo il link diretto ed una breve sintesi in inglese. E ancora una volta mi ripeto: il vero coraggio sta nel dichiarrasi e vivere con integrità senzaper questo, nel caso delle donne, conformarsi ad un look trasandato e non curato. Kenia infatti è bellissima.

 "I spent all my life pretending, being someone else to please everyone or because I was afraid of lose job opportunities. Sometimes, you just do everything to stay in the business and at the end you lose yourself."

http://lesbicanarias.es/2010/06/24/kenia-gascon-sale-del-armario/

http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0311061/

 

Usa: l'attrice Sara Gilbert si dichiara lesbica

Complimenti all'attrice per la sua integrità. E per mostrare che essere lesbica (o gay) non significa affatto avere un fisico o un look strano o diverso da chi è eteroesessuale.

Former 'Roseanne' actress Sara Gilbert quietly came out publicly as a lesbian at a press conference during the Television Critics Association conference in Los Angeles on Wednesday, Entertainment Weekly reports. Although she has never discussed her sexuality, it's been widely accepted that she was out of the closet -- as she has two children with TV producer Allison Adler.

"I don't think [being out] will be a problem ... I don't ever really think of things as being out or in ... I just think I am who I am, and when topics come up that are appropriate, I'll talk about them and share when it seems right," she added. 

http://www.popeater.com/2010/07/29/sara-gilbert-gay/

Gilbert and her partner Allison Adler have been together for 8 years. They have 2 kids: a 5-year-old named Levi, who Adler gave birth to; and 3-year-old Sawyer, who Gilbert gave birth to.

http://thenewschronicle.com/sara-gilbert/073006334/

http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0004960/

 

Israele: successo per il cantante dichiaratamente gay Ohlala Yehonathan

Allora, vediamo un pò: doppio mento, panza che straborda da tutti i lati, fisico flaccido, tipica bruttezza femnminea. Si, è proprio gay! Ah, l'ironia!

Gay Israeli music star Yehonathan Gatro is starting to make a name for himself on the North American music scene, care of his steamy music videos and danceable tracks, which he now writes in English. As part of his first North American tour this summer, he’s stopping in Ottawa on June 30 to perform at a fundraiser for Capital Pride 2010.

Coming out to his fans by releasing a gay love song in 2006, he has since produced two full-length albums in English — to growing acclaim.

Yehonathan has been part of the Israeli music scene for 10 years now, and he has an interesting performance history. Many of his current North American fans don’t know that he used to be a teen heartthrob in a boy band called Five. As a closeted gay man, misrepresenting who he was for the throngs of adoring young girls eventually got to him. Pretending to be straight for the sake of a mainstream music career lost its appeal when he had to hide his grief over the end of an important relationship. He ran away to LA for a couple years and started on the path of coming out.

“I feel my work is much better now — more free and honest,” he says. “I do what I want to and that, to me, [is] the most important thing. I look at gay artists that are still in the closet, and I feel bad for them…especially because I feel their art is hurt by it.

“[Before I came out], I was so busy acting straight onstage, and that was very limiting for me as a performer. Now, I feel I can act as whatever — macho, feminine, gay, straight, you name it. I'm much more in tune with my personality and body, and I can display my range without worrying, ‘Oops! Was that hand wave too queer?’”

Part of Yehonathan’s growing popularity in North America has been due to his steamy videos, which often feature shirtless men making out, flirting and showing each other desire.But being this out has been quite a process for Yehonathan — part of which was a period of time serving in the Israeli army, strangely enough. He says the experience was life-changing for him.
 
“It was a deep and character-building experience for me, especially as a gay man enlisting [in] a very elite and demanding military unit like the Parashooters [a counter-terrorism unit modeled on the British SAS]. I had anxieties before being recruited that I [would] not make friends and that I [wouldn’t] measure up to my straight buddies in the unit, but I was very surprised to discover that I had one or two very butch bones in my body. I realized during my military service what a real man I am, regardless [of] being a gay one.”

http://www.xtra.ca/public/Ottawa/Yehonathan_tackles_North_America_one_Pride_fundraiser_at_a_time-8844.aspx

 

 

http://yehonathan.com/site/

Canada: successo internazionale per la cantante di opera apertamente lesbica Adrianne Pieczonka

operatic lesbians reign supreme in Cambellford as Laurie Tucker joins wife Adrianne Pieczonka in a luscious evening of Sapphic sopranos.

“It’s challenging at times, of course,” says Pieczonka. “My schedule takes me all over the world, but once a year we manage to find time to sing together. It’s really magical to make music with your partner.”

Choosing songs for their concert proved a little tricky for the women. There aren’t a lot of duets written for mezzo and soprano voices.

“We’ve been given carte blanche,” Pieczonka says. “We wanted to keep it light and summery, so we chose things we felt suited us: The Lakmé flower duet from Madame Butterfly, Barcarolle from Tales of Hoffman, and a big scene from the opera Norma, which is a Bel Canto piece that neither of us have performed before. It’s a really great fiery scene.”

It would be understandable if two ambitious and respected singers experienced the occasional frisson of competitiveness between them, but Tucker and Pieczonka remain stalwart fans of each other’s work, and supportive in a way that only another singer can offer.

“It’s challenging, sure, and it’s also amazing,” says Tucker. “I’m inspired by Adrianne’s singing, I always have been. I’m blessed that I get to sing with her.”

The couple met in 2004, during the Canadian Opera Company’s production of Valkyrie. Pieczonka was singing the role of Sieglinde, while Tucker stormed the stage in an army of Valkyries. They were about halfway through the rehearsal process when love struck fast and furious.

“The violins were playing, I always say,” laughs Tucker. “We dated intensely. I was living in the States at the time and she was in England. I went over for a visit and that was it.”

They married in June of 2005, and welcomed daughter Grace a year later. Life is now a busy whirlwind of parenting, travel and work, but the women are ecstatic at the opportunity to share a stage singing the music they both love – even if Tucker remains a little star struck.

“It’s occasionally nerve-wracking,” she admits, “because I keep Adrianne on a pedestal a bit. But to stand next to your partner with whom you share your life, your voices and your bodies vibrating together — how much more intimate can you get outside of the bedroom?”

http://www.adriannepieczonka.com/

http://www.xtra.ca/public/Toronto/Music_Westbens_Concerts_at_the_Barn-8914.aspx"A

drianne Pieczonka's Kaiserin is parhttp://www.adriannepieczonka.com/ticularly lyrical, http://wapedia.mobi/en/Adrianne_Pieczonka

Below Pieczonka with wife and fellow opera singer Laurie Tucker

 

 Pieczonka's Kaiserin is particularly lyrical,  voice very well suited for the Strauss repertoire. Especially intense was also the finale 'ich will nicht' in which she affirms the happiness

ive abandon and total control over the role." (OperaClick, 8 May 201

Gran Bretagna: il rugbista Gareth Thomas e la stilista Mary Portas nominati gay più influenti della nazione

Allora, facciamo un pò di ripasso. Le persone gay sono sempre e comunque strane nel fisico e nel volto. Se uomini hanno lineamenti feminei e se donne sembrano maschi. Se uomini non sono in grado di avere un minimo di forza e prestanza fisica e sono tutti flaccidi e panzuti. Se donne sono brutte e non hanno un minimo di buon gusto nell'abbigliamento. Certo, esattamente come Gareth Thomas e Mary Portas! Ah l'ironia!

Pink List judges – including former culture secretary Ben Bradshaw, broadcaster Clare Balding, Stonewall chief executive Ben Summerskill, and John Amaechi, the psychologist and author – fought long and hard to decide on the 101 most influential gay and lesbian people in Britain today. 

1= (new entry) Gareth Thomas; Rugby player

The revelation of Thomas's homosexuality in an interview with the Daily Mail last December confirmed what had been an open secret in rugby union for years after his separation from his wife, but it highlighted the taboo over gay people in professional sport. Thomas, the 35-year-old former Wales and British & Irish Lions captain, won 103 international caps and played club rugby for Cardiff Blues and Toulouse. He said in his interview that he was unaware of any other gay player "still in the game". From living a lie, he has taken on the role of campaigner, working with Childline to reach out to young people facing the dilemma with which he struggled from the age of 17. The reaction in the macho world of rugby has been universally sympathetic although, earlier this summer, as Thomas was playing his second game of rugby league for south Wales side Crusaders, he was subjected to homophobic abuse from Castleford fans, for which the Yorkshire club was fined £40,000. Thomas says he has had no problems in his other Super League games. Both Thomas and Nigel Owens, the Welsh referee who was previously rugby union's only high-profile gay figure, contemplated suicide before coming out.

1= (new entry) Mary Portas; Broadcaster, PR and Queen of Shops

For such a candid personality, it's a surprise that Portas has kept her private life just that for so long. Within the magazine and public relations worlds, her relationship with the fashion journalist Melanie Rickey was common knowledge, although she never discussed it in the media. This year it all changed. The couple's civil partnership in June – and discussion of it on Jonathan Ross's chat show and in Grazia magazine – meant the many fans of her Mary Queen of Shops TV show learnt about what Portas, 48, described as a day of "lots of tight dresses and high heels". Sexual preference is no barrier to success in the fashion industry where Portas made her name in the early Nineties by turning Harvey Nichols into a must-shop destination before setting up her consultancy, Yellow Door, and then becoming a retail guru in print and on TV. But for the wider public Portas has, in coming out, enlightened many about how lesbians look and behave (just like anyone else, that is). Like any good PR, she would rather create publicity for clients than for herself, but her inclusive nature and stratospheric success make her a fantastic role model.

http://www.independent.co.uk/news/people/news/the-iiosi-pink-list-2010-2040472.html

 

Below Mary Portas, right and girlfriend and Grazia journalist Melanie Rickie, Left. The couple had a civil partnership in june. Thomas at the moment has no boyfriend.

http://www.queeried.co.uk/mary-portas-melanie-rickey-wedding/

Mary and Melanie the day of their civil partnership ceremony.

 

Canada: il nuotatore apertamente gay Mark Tewksbury nominato Chef de Mission per le Olimpiadi del 2012

Two-time Olympian Mark Tewksbury has been named Canada’s chef de mission for the London 2012 Games.

“I have the amazing honour and privilege of being the chef de mission,” Tewksbury announced on CTV's Canada AM Thursday morning.

“I got the news a little while ago and have been sitting tight on it until today, so finally I can talk.”

The chef de mission is selected by the Canadian Olympic Committee as the official representative and spokesperson of the Canadian Olympic Team.

Tewksbury, 42, competed in two Olympics before retiring from competition in 1992. At the 1988 games in Seoul he won a silver medal as part of Canada's relay team. In 1992, Tewksbury beat expectations to snatch Canada's first gold medal of the Barcelona games.

He has since been inducted into the Canadian Olympic Hall of Fame, the Canadian Sports Hall of Fame, and the International Swimming Hall of Fame.

His commitment to gays being allowed to compete without discrimination in sport has been a focal point of his post Olympic career. He was an executive of the Outgames held in Montreal.

In 2006, he published his second book, an autobiography entitled Inside Out: Straight Talk from a Gay Jock.

Tewksbury is a public figure in the gay community, working as a motivational speaker, a television commentator for swimming events, and a continued activist.

He is a board member of the Gay and Lesbian Athletics Foundation.

http://www.theglobeandmail.com/sports/more-sports/mark-tewksbury-to-lead-canada-at-london-2012-olympics/article1662685/

Gran Bretagna: il cantante Joe McElderry si dichiara gay

Ancora una storia di coraggio e integrità ed un positivo modello per chi è gay. 

The 19-year-old X Factor winner made the brave decision to come out in an emotional ­interview with the Mirror, just a week after telling his mum.

Joe has always denied rumours he was gay, but insisted the reason was he didn’t know himself until recently.

He's been the subject of intense scrutiny over his sexuality ever since his sensational X Factor win.

And Joe McElderry has always insisted he was straight.

But the 19-year-old has now bravely decided to tell the world he is gay – and the denials were down to the fact he never knew himself, until three weeks ago.

And he said he is comfortable with his decision to come out publicly, declaring: “I’m happy. I now know who I am.”

 Relaxing in the garden of his Central London flat, Joe said: “I’m so happy. It’s all been so recent to be honest. Over the past couple of weeks I’ve had time to think and come to realise who I am. I have grown up a lot.

“I’m not worried about how fans will react. They have always said they’ll back me no matter what. Everyone’s been really kind so I would like to thank them and your readers for all the support."

If Joe has any misconceptions being gay could affect his career, he only needs to look at Will Young. He came out in 2002 after winning Pop Idol and has gone from strength to strength.

http://www.mirror.co.uk/celebs/news/2010/07/31/joe-mcelderry-i-m-gay-x-factor-winner-comes-out-in-daily-mirror-interview-115875-22452854/

http://www.joe-music.com/


Gran Bretagna: il cantante e attore Jon Lee si dichiara gay

Come da copine. Brutto, flaccido e panzuto. Ah, l'ironia!

The actor, who was recently in BBC1's Casualty, speaks to the magazine about his career and personal life.

On the speculation surrounding his sexuality: “If someone had said ’are you gay?’ I would have said yes, but no-one ever did. I’ve never felt the need to leap out of the closet singing and dancing about it. I’ve always known I was gay, from a very young age. I came out to my friends and my family at a very young age, so for me it’s always been my life and it’s never needed to be a huge change that I’ve had to tell everyone about.”
 
On coming out, he added: “If you are in the public eye I think people feel like they have a right to know, feel like they have a right to ask and that you should be completely open and honest about all these things. And I think it depends.”

http://news.pinkpaper.com/NewsStory.aspx?id=3633

http://www.gaytimes.co.uk/Magazine/InThisIssue-articleid-7179-sectionid-736.html

http://jonleeofficial.com/

Usa: la conduttrice di talk show radio Stefanie Miller si dichiara lesbica

Le parole di Chely Wright, il cui coming out ho già riportato, evidenziano perchè una persoan famosa si dichiara gay. Per la visibilità offerta a chi non può permettersi di vivere con onestà e a chi non corrisponde a determinati stereotipi. Un plauso a Stefanie!

Progressive radio personality Stephanie Miller has revealed she is a lesbian.

Miller, 48, publicly came out of the closet on her nationally syndicated show, "The Stephanie Miller Show," on Friday.

''[Chely Wright] said to me, 'Stephanie, those of us who can't hide, that maybe don't fit a specific stereotype.... I didn't do it for me. I did it for the teacher in Kansas that has to take Pepto Bismol every day because she's afraid they're going to ask her what she did on the weekend. For the kid in Iowa who's about to kill himself because he doesn't think that there's anybody like that in his town.' And I think that's part of moving this forward, this debate. It's not just what some people say, 'that freak at a parade.' It's your sister. It's your daughter. It's your doctor. It's your lawyer, you know, whoever.... I've never lied on the air. I've never said I'm gay. I've never said I'm straight. Frankly, I've always been a  slut."

http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-31749_162-20013615-10391698.html

http://www.stephaniemiller.com/

Usa: l'attore David Yost si dichiara gay

Ci sono personaggi famosi che continuano a far calare coltri di silenzio sulla propria vita privata inviando cosi' il messaggio che essere gay o lesbica sia innaturale, sbagliato a quaolcosa di cui vergognarsi. E ci sono coloro, come David Yost, che invece scelgono di uscire allo scoperto e di non nascondersi più. Per essere un esempio ed un modello di riferimento.

 David Yost, who from 1993 to 1996 starred as the blue Power Ranger in more than 200 episodes of the children’s television phenomenon Mighty Morphin Power Rangers,talks about the taunting and teasing he endured on the set of the show, and the years of ups and downs that have finally made him able to say the words, “I’m gay.”

Yost says he’s coming out now because he’s “tired of hearing stories about teenagers still taking their lives and committing suicide because of who they are and not understanding that there are resources for them to get help.”

http://www.advocate.com/News/Daily_News/2010/08/26/Power_Ranger_David_Yost_Im_Gay/

http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0949128/


 

Usa: Neil Patrick Harris e Jane Lynch, entranbe gay dichiarati, vincono gli Emmy

Dedicato a quelli che "i gay sono destinati all'insuccesso e all'infelicità".

The How I Met Your Mother star was named best guest actor in a comedy series for his appearance in the musical drama show.

The actor also shared in another award at the creative arts ceremony - the precursor to the main Emmy show on August 29 - as the Tony Awards show which he hosted to critical acclaim was recognised as best special class programme.

http://uk.news.yahoo.com/21/20100823/ten-two-emmys-for-neil-patrick-harris-5f8abb3.html

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neil_Patrick_Harris

Musical comedy Glee received three accolades at the Los Angeles ceremony, including Outstanding Supporting Actress in a Comedy for Jane Lynch, for her performance as caustic coach Sue Sylvester.

http://jane-lynch.com/

Below Jane Lynch with wife Laura

Below Patrick Harris with boyfriend David